Guardians Of The Galaxy and the Importance of an Awesome Mix Tape

It’s a looong weekend ladies and gentlemen so let’s pop in a good mix, consider what our music says about us, and appreciate some tunes!  Yes, the music in James Gunn’s Guardians Of The Galaxy films create an unbelievably fun, catchy soundtrack we all want to play on repeat forever BUT it’s ALSO as unique and important to the plot as the crew of the Milano.  More than most films, the Awesome Mixes give Guardians Of The Galaxy its soul.  It makes sense!  Our music is an intimate part of who we are and, as a result, an honest, heartfelt mix tape is a gift where we share something deeply personal with another.  In the films, Awesome Mix Vol. 1 and 2 are gifts to Peter from his mother, Meredith Quill.  In sharing the music she loved with him she also gave him a beautiful part of herself.  So, in the Awesome Mixes, we aren’t treated simply to a fun soundtrack.  Rather, we see a picture of who Meredith Quill was and we find an important part of what shaped Peter Quill into the man he became.

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Baby Groot gettin’ his groove on. / Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2

To understate the point, music is important.  In his book The Origins Of Music, Nils Lennart Wallin outlines how music has always been a part of our lives for almost as long as we’ve been considered “human.”  He outlines how music is found in every known culture, past and present, varying wildly between times and places.  Since all people of the world, including the most isolated of tribal groups, have a form of music, it may be concluded that music is likely to have been present in the ancestral population prior to the dispersal of humans around the world.  Consequently music may have been in existence for at least 50,000 years.  The first music most likely was invented in Africa and evolved from there to become a fundamental constituent of human life.  So, historically and anthropologically, music is important.  However, a history lesson may explain how music’s stayed with us, but it lacks the passion and intimacy to speak to why specific music fills our lives.

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Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy

To wildly understate another point, music is important to us.  While there are small groups of people (I’m friends with a few) to whom music has no real, tangible meaning outside of background noise, to the rest of us music is something vital.  It provides meaning, solace, structure.  It helps us smile, cry, dance, and sing.  It often helps us learn too, expressing what we can’t express or helping us feel what we’ve yet to fully understand.  Regardless of the genres that comprise “our music,” music helps us make sense of our lives and create meaning.  I’d argue there are few things more personal, few things which we hold a more intimate connection to than our music.  It’s all subjective so it’s all personal too.  The artist can never control the meaning of their art once they put it out there and we can never get back to the artist’s original moment  of consciousness in artistic creation either.  Because of that, it is our meaning that’s important.  An artist always has a meaning in mind when they create, but that can’t ever be fully shared.  Rather we take from a song what is says to us.

When we create a mix tape then, we are building something very personal because we are making a thoughtful and intentional move to share our music with another.  Granted, we live in an age where making a mix tape is a lost art.  (In fact, I had a recent comment section conversation with Rob at My Side Of The Laundry Room about this not too long ago.)  With iTunes and Spotify we can create playlists with dozens of songs, hundreds of songs, thousands of songs.  We can have songs that can be randomly shuffled and reordered at whim, playlists so long they’ll never be experienced in one sitting.  But with an actual mix tape (cassette or CD) you have a finite amount of space.  So each song becomes important.  What do you cut?  What do you keep?  What order do you want the songs to go in?  What sort of emotional story are you telling?  What opens?  What closes?  An authentic mix tape is a labor of love, something that seeks to reflect both the person making it (you’re choosing songs you love) and the person you’re giving it to (you want them to love it too).  It takes time, thoughtfulness, and authentic emotional investment.

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Baby Groot gives his music assembling the attention it deserves. / Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2

A mix tape then is, in part, a musical conversation affecting both the creator and the listener – opening the world of the one for the other and asking them to come in and experience it too, leaving their mark on the music as well.  We see this clearly in the Guardians Of The Galaxy films.  Look at the character of Peter Quill.  In my opinion he’s easily the happiest of all the MCU heroes we’ve met yet.  He’s certainly the most laidback.  He’s goofy, funny, a little self-involved at times, confident, and has great capacity for emotional depth and openness.  This is remarkable considering his origin story.  Abducted by Yondu Udonta and his Ravagers moments after seeing his mother die from cancer, Peter grows up roaming the seediest, most dangerous parts of space with no knowledge of his father and no connection to the family he left behind.  This is every bit as tragic as Batman or Spider-Man’s origin stories…if not more so!  Yet Peter doesn’t become an angry, emotionally stunted man nor does he glumly carry the weight of the world on his shoulders.  It’s quite the contrary in fact.  When we first meet the grown-up version of Peter Quill in Guardians Of The Galaxy he’s on this dark, desolate world, alone and looking for a score while literally dancing his way through life in one of the MCU’s funniest and most memorable scenes.

Why?  I’d argue, in large part, it’s because of the music.  His Walkman and his mother’s Awesome Mix Vol. 1 become treasured possessions that not only keep him connected to her and give him moments of escape from his life but help form who he becomes.  If we think about it, this is only natural.  How could a boy, ripped from the only life he’s ever known moments after losing his mother, not live in and through the music she’s given him?

So what then can we learn about Meredith Quill from Awesome Mix Vol. 1 and (ultimately) it’s sibling Awesome Mix Vol. 2?  Who was the woman who gave birth to Peter, raised him for the first part of his life, and left part of her heart and soul with him in the form of these mixes?  Granted, these can only be inferences – we see very little of Meredith in the films.  But if we believe our music is as important to us as I’ve outlined above (and I think it is!) we can see great meaning in the nearly two dozen songs she’s given Peter.

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Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy

First, she’s a fun girl!  Just as Peter will later in life, Meredith likes to sing along and dance.  How couldn’t she with songs like “Hooked On A Feeling,” “I Want You Back,” “Come And Get Your Love,” “Southern Nights,” and “Wham Bam Shang-A-Lang“?!?  And, if you’re spending your days singing and dancing, you’re experiencing joy.  I defy you to let yourself loose in the moment, fully wrapped in the music, dancing freely and singing at the top of your lungs and not FEEL GREAT.  And, you don’t love songs like the songs listed above if you don’t love to sing and dance.  I’ve gotten many a stare rocking out to those songs at red lights with my windows open.  So Meredith was a happy girl who loved to sing, loved to dance, and loved to enjoy life!

But Meredith isn’t just a party time, group dance kind of girl.  No, she likes a slow dance too which means she’s a romantic at heart.  Look at “Fooled Around And Fell In Love,” “I’m Not In Love,” “Lake Shore Drive,” and “Bring It On Home To Me.”  These are songs that make you want to pull someone close and just hold them as you listen.  Slow dancing isn’t for everyone.  It can be awkward, the close swaying – especially in public.  But there’s something beautiful about abandoning yourself and surrendering to that intimacy.  There’s a connection forged in the slow, gentle swaying together that isn’t quite found anywhere else.  And Meredith was obviously someone who was a romantic at heart, including these songs and even falling in love with a “space man.”  This romantic nature is something Peter inherited as well.

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Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2

In addition to being a romantic, Meredith is a spiritual person at heart.  Obviously we have “Spirit In The Sky” as a clear indicator of her contemplation of spiritual things.  But, far more important, is the inclusion of George Harrison’s “My Sweet Lord.”  Given her age, of course Meredith would be shaped by and connected to The Beatles!  So, with our already discussed finite amount of mix tape space, who does she decide to include for Peter?  Is it Paul, the fun Beatle?  Is it John, the political activist Beatle?  No, it’s George – the spiritual Beatle.  Her song choice is important too as “My Sweet Lord” includes an ancient Vedic chant interwoven throughout more traditional Christian spiritual terminology sung in the song. George Harrison remarked that he wanted to get people praying, even if they didn’t realize it.  So as a means to that end he by put a prayer into a pop song they’d sing along to.

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Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy

It’s worth taking a moment to stress the importance of Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell’s “Ain’t No Mount High Enough” in regard to Peter and Meredith’s relationship.  While the song is part of the first film’s soundtrack, in the context of the story of the film, it’s actually the very first track on Awesome Mix Vol. 2.  As we see in the final scene of Guardians Of The Galaxy, after defeating Ronan and saving the day, Peter finally opens the present his mother gave him right before she died.  It’s a beautifully rendered scene where Peter, with tears in his eyes, puts this new mix into his tape deck.  Knowing she’s dying and knowing this is the final gift she’ll give her son, Meredith’s first move is to assure Peter, “some way, some how” she’ll always be there for him.  Decades after losing his mother, Peter hears her final promise, “I told you you could always count on me darling / From that day on, I made a vow / I’ll be there when you want me / Some way, some how / Oh baby there ain’t no mountain high enough / Ain’t no valley low enough / Ain’t no river wide enough / To keep me from getting to you babe.”  Honestly, I get a little teary eyed too each time I watch it.  What a tender, moving, powerful example of a mother’s love – shared forever with her son through her music.

Fitting with this promise she gives Peter and illustrated in the other songs she shares, we see the idea of hope and happiness being central to her character as well.  Clearly Meredith’s fond of/attracted to/intrigued by complicated relationships (something else Peter gets from his mother).  We find “Escape (The Pina Colada Song),” “Brandy (You’re A Fine Girl),” and “Come A Little Bit Closer,” all looking at and embracing less…traditional approaches to love :).  But, despite the trials love may give, we see hope and optimism anchoring it all.  Those songs are all happy, fun, and hopeful in and of themselves.  But it doesn’t stop there.  “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough” is an ICONIC tribute to hope!  “Mr. Blue Sky” is too.  Perhaps most of all though we have “O-o-h Child.”  This song radiates positivity and the clear certainty that it’s all going to be better.  When you listen to The Five Stairsteps sing this song, it’s not the tragedy that grounds the song that you hear but the assurance that “things are gonna get easier” that consistently fills and elevates you.

Lastly, she’s a bit of an outsider.  Yes, her choices are all mainstream pop hits.  She’s using singles, not album deep cuts.  But she’s got David Bowie on here.  Bowie, while a MEGA star and a genre definer, isn’t everyone’s cup of tea.  So the fact that she has “Moonage Daydream” on here speaks to the fact that Meredith understood, appreciated, enjoyed, and felt at home on the margins.

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Our favorite group of misfits and outcasts…and soon to be family. / Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy

We see all of this reflected, directly and some more indirectly, in Peter Quill.  If not for what he learned from his mother, through her music, it’s questionable whether or not “Star Lord” would have ever become the hero he did or whether or not the Guardians of the Galaxy would have ever been pulled together.  But he had that music so we have this hero.  Iron Man has his snark.  Captain America has his nobility.  Hulk has his rage.  Spidey has his conscience.  Thor has his humility.  But Peter Quill has his heart and that heart’s filled with joy.  That’s what we can find with good music.  And what better gift can any parent give their child than a sense of true joy, the idea that life is to be danced through, and the belief that it’s always going to get brighter?

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Break it down! / Photo Credit – Guardians of The Galaxy

There is much more that can be said about the songs I haven’t mentioned and of course so much more that can be said about the songs I have included.  But, at the end of the day, music is really meant to be heard and felt not so much written and read about.  As Billy Joel famously told us, “There’s a new band in town / but you can’t get the sound / from a story in a magazine.”  So I think it’s time to bring this post to a close.  I’ve spent the last two weeks listening to Awesome Mix Vol. 1 and Awesome Mix Vol. 2 on constant repeat in my car to get ready to write this post.  Do you know what happened?  Somewhat redundantly I can tell you IT WAS AWESOME.  I’m not planning on taking those mixes out anytime soon either.  They’re just happy music and that’s a gift that can’t be underrated.

So why don’t we all agree to take the weekend, listen to some music that speaks to our souls, and share it with someone we love?  I’m not sure there’s a more fulfilling use of our time.  As the 20th century’s leading scholar on mythology Joseph Campbell once wrote, “Love is a friendship set to music.”  And who couldn’t use a little more love?

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“I am Groot!” – translation – “All you need it love!” / Photo Credit – Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2


27 thoughts on “Guardians Of The Galaxy and the Importance of an Awesome Mix Tape

  1. Fantastic Post, Michael! Perfect for a Saturday evening!

    Yes, I constantly replay fave tracks from Awesome Mixtape Vol 1! But I did find th selection for Vol 2 disappointing so I don’t listen to that
    It’s fascinating how different people can listen to good songs on one hand but have awesome songs that can evoke strong emotions/personal memories (and vice versa)
    When people ask me a seemingly simple q like: “What music do u listen to?” Well!
    Different days = different music choices.
    Been listening to 80s pop, cos it’s keeping me spirits up this month (u’re invited to th Bradscribe 80s Night this weekend!); to inspire my historical novel-writing I set th tone by listening to Hildegard von Bingen (12th century chant!); at the moment? Trad Middle Eastern music (!) This will become apparent when u read th latest Fartlighter Bradventure THIS WEEK…
    Btw, am currently enjoying your Overlookbusters fiction (I accompany that w “dark ambient” music)

    “Without music, life would be a mistake” – Friedrich Nietzsche

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    1. A Bradscribe 80’s Night sounds like EXACTLY the type of party I want to go to! Having seen some of your music and some of your nostalgia posts, I can only imagine the sweet tunes you’d be spinning for us.

      Also, you’re right, it is fascinating to see a) what music speaks to certain people and b) how people can have such different experiences with the same music. It’s an intriguing and powerful testament to the subjective – and thus deeply personal – nature of how we listen to music.

      Kudos on the Nietzsche too! I hope you start a trend and other would be commentors leave quotes about music :). That’d be fun!

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      1. This 80s Night Post started as a means to fill th gap between my reviews and fiction – it concentrates on UK pop so it does ‘t clash w anyone else’s music posts!
        Excellent comment about music – I wholeheartedly agree w u
        “I hope u start a trend”
        What, ANOTHER one?! 😉

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    1. I minored in it in college actually. Once you get the basics, it’s pretty easy. However, there weren’t a lot of job openings in translating for Groot so I went with my fall back career and decided to stick with teaching instead. However, in posts like this, it manages to come in handy!

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  2. Hi Michael,

    Yes, music really is an amazing thing. Think about God creating all things with His words, imagine what setting to music does. It really is it’s own character in a film.



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    1. I love thinking of God’s presence and power in music. Sacred music and ritual music is a fascinating are of exploration. It’s so moving too, given how music touches us.

      In Hindiusm it’s believed that music is divinity manifest on earth as sound, and some Hindu texts say that Vishnu and Shri may be present as Nada Brahman (Brahman, the supreme being) in the form of sound. Music and dance are seen two of the most important ways of attaining a religious experience. I’ve always loved that idea! What a beautiful way for Hinduism to express their idea of the Divine.


      1. Look at King David in the Bible. He danced before the Lord in worship . I had a friend tell me imagine Heaven being built on light and music. Pretty awesome like you say.

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  3. Oh I miss mixtapes so bad, damn playlist. I did love the GotG vol.2 soundtrack, me and the kids have been rocking out to it. They will never know how difficult making one of those tapes in the 80’s actually was.

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    1. Right?! You had to cue up the song on one tape, hit record/play and play simultaneously on the two decks, then stop. And you had to worry about all the spacing between songs. You could hear all the crackling between songs too. Ahh, it’s such a lost art.

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  4. I had several mixtapes in high school back in the 90’s, which then turned into mix Cds in the 2000s. Yes, each one was carefully planned for specific purposes. I’m listened to particular ones based on what mood I was in. Grunge, metal, alternative…you know. Now I have Spotify, and I have this….LIST. Shuffle and it’s different every time. No thought to it. I need to go back to cassettes and be old school.

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    1. I’m happy you can share my nostalgic longing! I’m with you on the genre mixes and I’ve also built some around specific themes. I had a friend who loved to do that. We’d pick a topic, make the mix, and then trade them. There’s nothing like a great mix born of finite space. So clearly I fully support your return to doing it old school :).

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  5. I agree absolutely! Having to narrow down choices does make a mix tape very special. I there’s also something to be said to being limited to listening to a certain number of songs. Playlists often mean that listeners aren’t really cycling through selections as much–the playlist can go on seemingly forever! But having to listen to a small number of songs on repeat allows listeners to get closer to them.

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    1. Yes! That’s it! And I think the getting closer is a big part of the magic of sharing your music with someone. It’s an intimate experience. The more time you spend with those songs the more you fall into the music, lyrics, and how one song leads into another. All of this affects your feelings. The finite space makes it an intentional journey, not an endless parade.

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  6. A beautiful and well-written post, Michael! I am impressed by how much thought you’ve put in this — but not surprised. After all, as you mention in the beginning, “music has always been a part of our lives for almost as long as we’ve been considered “human.” ” I don’t know a single person who doesn’t have a favorite song or band or artist. I do miss the magic of mix tapes — some of my favorite playlists are still from mixtapes my friends, family, and former lovers made for me on both cassette and CD. Why? The intimate connection established from listening to the music and understanding these connections are so essential.

    To this day, I’m distressed that when one boyfriend broke up with me, he took back all the mix-tapes he mad made for me. Why? They were too personal. I knew him too well, he said. and he’s right. Listening to someone else’s music in the specific order they define helps you to truly understand someone. In a way you never could have otherwise.

    (I found this post thanks to the Sunday Exchange on Pages Unbound. Thanks for sharing, Michael!)

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    1. Thank you for the wonderful comment Jackie! I apologize my reply is long in coming. That happens to me, especially during the school year and it’s been a crazy week at work :).

      Anyway, I love how you share my passion as well as longing for the brilliance and beauty of mix tapes! I’ve thought a lot about that former boyfriend of yours, asking for his mixes back. I can understand why he would; as you say above they are such a personal gift. But to give something like that up would be hard too. Reading that made me think of the mixes I have as presents from people, mixes I still treasure. Losing those would hurt deeply, especially at their request.

      I think your line, “The intimate connection established from listening to the music and understanding these connections are so essential” perfectly captures why a mix tape can be so personal and so beautiful as a gift. The line describes how we connect to our music. And, in a mix, we glimpse this relationship the other who’s given it to us has with their music too. Then we form our own connections to their music. And then we connect to the other in a new, deeper way as well through the music they’ve shared with us.

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      1. Pft, I am not remotely concerned about the timeliness of a response to a comment. Life is busy! Blogging is a hobby. We’re cool. 😉

        Exactly! Not only did it hurt because it was such a personal gift, but I felt like it represented all the positive parts of our relationship. While it exposed him emotionally, it showed he believed and supported me. It was one of the most positive and reassuring mixes I’d ever received. It just made the break-up that much harder.

        Mix tapes help us take relationships to the next level. Bring back the mix tape! 🙂

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      2. AMEN! I love that you get this. You know…if you’re ever interested in doing a guest post about your love of mix tapes and the intimate power of music in this format, I’d love to share it. I’ve thought about what you’ve written in these comments so much and I think it could be a brilliant post. No rush to decide or anything, obviously I’m a casual blogger :). But I think this is a fascinating area of exploration.

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